Limbo

That’s the only way to describe how I have been feeling. Limbo. I feel like I’m not really going anywhere, but I’m not coming from anything either. Things have been a steady fluctuation of slightly bad or slightly good… I’m not wishing bad upon my life, but it would be nice to see some changes. I know I have to make any changes in my life that I want to see, and that no one’s going to do it for me. But, I’m just tired of hearing that something is going to change that I can’t change myself and then continually, nothing happens.

I feel tired frequently, and lately, all I’ve wanted to do is play zombies. I haven’t even had much of an appetite. I’m not depressed or anything… Like I said, I just feel like I am in limbo.

I need to get out and do something fun. I need to make some new friends or something because going to work everyday and watching TV every night isn’t working for me very well anymore.

Dawn of a new day

January 5th, 2013. It is a new year. A fresh start. Nothing changes from the end of one year to the beginning of the next aside from the day and date… but everyone decides to try and change themselves. We as humans look at a new year as a new starting point, and I don’t think that’s wrong.

I, myself have a few changes in the making. My most active one is to begin saving money. I have never been able to save, and that is an awful trait to have. I always pay my bills and have a little extra to have what I want, but I never have anything set aside in case I need it. So, I started a new plan for saving money.

I have set up a spreadsheet in Excel to help determine EXACTLY what I need to put aside, and when. I get paid every Friday. From each check, 10% will go into a checking account at a different institution than my regular bank. For my savings, I will put an exponentially increased factor of $2 in weekly. For example, yesterday, (1/4/13) I put $2 into my savings account. Next Friday, I will put in $4, for a balance of $6. The week after that, $6 for a balance of $12. Then $8 for a balance of $20, and so on and so forth. I am very excited and anxious about this plan, and I truly hope that I can stick with it. I am going to try and make saving my first and foremost goal, and everything else, financially, will come behind it. If I don’t have enough to pay a certain bill, it will have to wait until the next week, as I am not going to cancel my savings deposit. You can see my spreadsheet at the following link. https://docs.google.com/open?id=0B2GRLGF189XDeGNOTklBU1FRZHc

Aside from all that, I also would like to begin reading more books. I am going to try and get a Kindle Paperwhite, which will hopefully prompt me to read even more, and faster. I have a few books right now that I need to get through before I can start that project. I have heard goals of 50 books a year, but I think that is just too high for me as I am just starting out. I will put forth a goal of 15 books this year, which is just over one a month. This goal is much more attainable for me, and is still a number I can be proud of.

I also have a goal for my puppy. He has a bad habit of chewing things, and I can’t really leave him alone in the house or I will find something chewed up. When I go to work, he goes in his crate and my fiance lets him out when he gets home. I am going to enroll him in puppy training classes. I just found out that aside from all the other benefits that come with puppy classes, they can also help with the chewing. That made it even more valuable to me. Classes start on Saturday, January 26th. I am very excited.

I hope that everyone had a great holiday season, and has a wonderful New Year. We can all be successful with our goals as long as they are honestly what we want to do, and they are attainable. If you set the bar too high for yourself, you will eventually fail and give up. I’m not telling you to lower your standards, but just be sure that what you’re trying to do is what YOU WANT to do.

Good luck and happy findings.

Christmas Eve

Well, it is Christmas Eve. I had a great day. My fiance and I exchanged our gifts today. We were both very happy with what we got. My tradition is to spend time with family at a house owned by two elderly people who I consider to be just like grandparents to me. We had a great time there. Lots of food, lots of smiles, and lots of dogs!

Christmases now always take me back to those spent with my Gramma. As my uncle said during her funeral, “Gramma is Christmas.” That’s what I used to say, and that’s where he got that quote. It breaks my heart to know that no more Christmases will be spent with her, but in a way, she’s always there. She’s in every Christmas tree, or decoration I see. She’s in every set of Christmas lights I drive by. She’s certainly in the genuine smiles I see during Christmas time. More than any other time of year, she’s everywhere. And for that, I am grateful.

I think the holiday season brings out the best and worst in people. It forces you to deal with things that you may have put off otherwise. It forces you to overcome emotions that you would otherwise suppress. Though it can bring up so many memories that you may not want to re-live, it makes you stronger. Forcing you to deal with tragedy, it brings light to that which you may take for granted. I will always have memories of time spent with my Gramma. I will always remember her tickling my feet to wake me up, and I will always remember hundreds of Christmas presents scattered about… most of them for me. :]

All I can say is, be happy with what you have, because you never know when you won’t have it.

Tough Day

Wow. Today has been pretty tough. Just work, nothing more. It hurts me when my bosses feel like they need to talk down on me. I ask a simple question and all I get in return is the nastiest attitude they can muster. They ask me to do something, then change their mind and don’t tell me. When I show them it’s done, they ask me why I would do that…

How discouraging. I think I’m about ready to begin looking around for different work. It makes me sad because I really do like this place. Aside from the bosses, I like who I work with. I like the location, the pay, the responsibilities, etc. It’s sad that despite enjoying all of that, my bosses can bring me down in such a way that I still want to leave.

All I’m saying is this – treat others how you would like to be treated. If you have a question to ask me, ask it. But you don’t need to talk down to me. If you don’t like something I did, tell me. But there’s no reason to be so nasty about it. That gets both of us nowhere. We could all stand to treat each other with just a little bit more kindness.